Friday, May 14, 2010

Supporting

Supporting
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My occupation is quite easy to become burnout. My team need more supporting.
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這是個相當耗能量的工作,這個星期已經有兩天九點不到就與周公下棋去,然而,疲累依然。

依稀記得國中理化老師說:「人太複雜了,故選擇一頭鑽入有理可循的世界中。」的確,「人」好複雜,故與「人」有關的工作更是複雜,而與「人」短暫生命有關的工作,便可謂之沉重。

人與人生命的交織,理想上應當是譜出許多悠美樂章的,只不過,當這些樂章轉換為命運交響曲時,那強勢的震撼力,往往不適合一個人獨自去承受。此刻,支持更顯為重要。不然,當身邊無時無刻聆聽著命運交響曲時,若不是漸趨無動於衷,就是轉身而逃,此二者均非所願見。

唯願更多支持展現。

----------Felicia庚寅初夏有感而發之記事....
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Monday, May 10, 2010

詭異的職稱

詭異的職稱
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明明已有法規規定,大家仍然我行我素.....
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今天跟同仁在研究一些名字,尤其是最近國健局推出的方案,受訓名單中,一堆職稱上寫上「社工師」者,都沒有社工師證書。其中還不乏知名的單位。

到底是怎麼回事,明明有法規規範以及明明有罰鍰制度,但「社工師」好像是一個任何人都可以冠上的名稱。更甚者,還看到某些志工在活動中的職稱也被標上了「社工師」。突然覺得有好深的無力感,難怪,大家都不當一回事。算了,算了,無力去跟這個怪怪的體制去做什麼。

------Felicia 惑於庚寅不見長安愁思中.....
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Sunday, May 09, 2010

coaching

coaching
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學如逆水行舟,不進則退:績效=潛力-干擾。
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看著同學們很努力在學習,深感學如逆水行舟,不進則退。故決定開始努力學習!這算是砸下去的第一堂課吧。聽著講師介紹coaching,覺得它真是個十分有趣的思維,當coaching進行時,它不是要去Add something but take something away!

Take something away!從簡單的我感受...我認為...我希望開始,到最後的對方身上。很多時候,因為旁觀者的原因,很容易知道到底是哪兒不對勁了,對於coaching來說,即使看到了、知道了答案,也不能說出來,而是要以「好奇」來引導。好奇發生了什麼事,變成這樣的結果。唔....感覺上算是過程取向(這也是我個人最弱的一環)。

從普世皆然的渴望到因人而異的期待,在冰山之下的那麼一大塊區域,要怎麼使它能「動」?牽一髮而動全身,在認知上都知道,不過,我也相信在過程中,我都忘掉了。怎麼去牽動那「一髮」呢?Take it away. Take it away. Take it away. 得學習從現有中去動吧!

-------Felicia 記於庚寅課程之後.......
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Saturday, May 08, 2010

Sorry, time is wrong

Sorry, time is wrong
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Can anyone let me know what’s going on?
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It’s so funny to ask you to lecture on a training course without checking your time. None has made contact with you. Just give a sheet to let you know that you are on the schedule. Then ask you to give the handout in 3days. Well, well, well, just before the day, one by one call to tell you that your handout isn’t ok. You shouldn’t make such kind of handout, too simple to understand.

Fine, I think I could make it more pages by ppt.

Today, I still felt so nervous with such a lecture. How could I do while one by one to tell me that my handout isn’t ok just in yesterday? I felt so nervous not about whom I will lecture to but the workers. I suppose I have time till 16:40, which was written on the schedule. It was 16:10. Someone come and told me time is wrong. They won’t arrange such section; I should end in 5 mins!

Can anyone let me know what’s going on?

I have to say I am so angry. They don’t treat me with respect. None made contact with me at first. Dislike the handout I give. Wrong introduced about me. I couldn’t understand why they always try to ignore that I have the certificate. So ridiculous about the wrong time!

---------Felicia on 8 May 2010.
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Monday, May 03, 2010

Take a break

Take a break
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After 3 days of training course, I am so glad to take a break.
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I went to Yang-Ming Mountain with my friends on Monday. At first, we thought that there weren’t a lots people, but we were wrong. This place was full of people! It’s Monday, what an amazing place. It’s a nice place. We all love it. See, the lovely entrance. Welcome to this garden.You can choose any isba you like, if none had chosen it. Enjoy the blowing wind. It is so wonderful to have a cup of coffee with friends and take a break.

---------Felicia on 2010.05.03
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